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Are they taking the children because parents are hurting their babies? Frequently their babies are being removed because the caseworker worker thinks they MIGHT. No longer does there have to be proof of wrongdoing. Stories like this are kept from the general public as child after child is torn from families while officials applaud themselves as public heroes.

There is an entire population of individuals affected by family law and courts around the nation. As long as we are disconnected from each other, their methods can continue to thrive with few hindrances. It is becoming increasingly clear that division makes our ability to  force Constitutional law oaths by our elected officials null and void. The issues are complex and the lack of trust is born from years of government interference in the family and the ensuing actions used to keep us all off balance.  We need to overcome those obstacles by focusing on a common goal - that of achieving family preservation  and cohesive relationships that benefit most or all parties. Children are best suited for their own families, but where that is not possible, support must be given to those who open up their homes and lives, loving those who would not have love and safety otherwise.








 

Warning to those who seek help because of a wayward teen:

If a parent or grandparent find themselves in a position where they have a child out of control in the home, DON'T CALL CPS! All family services will be documented and could possibly bite you in the butt later. Even the number of times a person calls in can be used against them in a later court case.

Based on a true story:  Suppose you have a daughter who is on drugs and causing quite a bit of chaos. Desperation sets in as you realize you can't control her behaviors. Looking at all the options, you consider calling CPS or the court and you do so. 

The intake person tells you that the first thing they do is offer in-home family counseling so you agree to that.  They send a contracted person out who has more problems than you do. After establishing a relationship with the family, the counselor drops out because of personal problems. 

CPS sends a few people out, none of which connect and they do not attempt to rectify the loss of the other counselor.  You call a couple of other times, then decide that CPS does not have their act together and has nothing to offer you, so you decide to do something else.

This gets documented as a refusal for services or a drop out of services. Not only that, any disclosures on the side of children or adults gets documented and can be used against you later.

Suppose this same daughter, or even a different one, gets pregnant and you want to do a third party custody or relative placement/guardianship. Guess what? All that great help you got will then become a part of the home study and you will get denied saying that if you couldn't control one child, what makes you think you can control this one? And they will put on paper that the child's drug problems are your entire fault. You will be lucky if you ever see the grandchild again.

Asking CPS for help is the equivalent of asking a demon for mercy. Don't do it. This would be considered a therapeutic relationship under those circumstances.  Would you pay a therapist who would turn on you and use information against you? Hardly! But that violation is paid for by you with tax dollars.

Calling CPS on your daughter or son who has child raising difficulties is handled the same way. They will use the fact that you called them to create schisms between you and the parents. They will especially utilize this method if, as an extended family member, you object to the railroading of the children into adoption.

One of the concerns that leads family to call CPS is the liability of the wayward teen inflicting havoc upon the community and the constant barrage of court fines that can add up to thousands. Then there is domestic violence and property damage that so often happens with an addicted criminally minded teen. The family may be interested in a CHINS petition (children in need of services) or some other court empowered handcuff on the child. There may be no other alternative when things get to this point.  The clincher is, the child can refuse drug and alcohol treatment thanks to some activists UNLESS you can prove they are an endangerment to self and others, and then involuntary commitment becomes a possibility.


 

TEENS!
Don't lie or exaggerate about abuse or neglect in your family. If   you get removed and placed in foster care then want to take back what you said, you will not be able to. The system will refuse to believe you. In one case, a daughter lied and said that she was choked. This resulted in job loss, possible home loss, her family's reputation ruined and she can't go back to her mom. Her guilt is now draped over her like a wet blanket and she destroyed her family for life. Teens are doing this to their parents all over the country while mad and out of control not wanting discipline. Now her parents are on an abuse register and can't work in their field.



EXTENDED FAMILIES WANTING CUSTODY

Laws are changing to reflect new values and trends that don't necessarily represent society as a whole, but for those who lobby for their special interests. Recent developments in litigation suggests that the courts believe blood relatives may not be in the best interest of the child and states are handing over children left and right to strangers.

The American Law Institute's Principles of Family Dissolution see non-parents who have lived with and cared for a child as de facto parents and often encourages custody reside with them. The new trends produce dangerous grounds for blood relatives that assume they have priority with children. The four principles that govern whether a non-parent qualifies as a De Facto Parent is as follows:


1. the natural or legal parent consented to and fostered the parent-like relationship      2. the petitioner and the child lived in the same household      3. the petitioner assumed obligations of parenthood without expectations of compensation   4. the petitioner has been in a parental role for a sufficient amount of time to have established with the child a bonded, depended relationship parental in nature

If a non-parent meets the above criteria, legal action to document this is suggested especially if other means are being thwarted by the CPS staff. This should be done within the first six months of removal if extended family wants to go the De Facto parenting route.


FOOD FOR THOUGHT: ABUSE OR JUSTICE

A look at child protection from an anthropological point of view click link for article



ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS STATES IN THE UNION NOT ONLY FAILS  TO TAKE CARE OF FOSTER CHILDREN BUT STOOD THEM UP: http://news8austin.com/content/headlines/271246/political-parents-a-no-show-at-foster-care--family-reunion-

Watch broken children broken system....a five part series about the Texas foster care system   http://news8austin.com/content/special_reports/broken_children_broken_system/

THE MOST DANGEROUS CRIMINALS IN AMERICA

Who is REALLY KILLING our children.....

Click to read the article above........
 



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